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A kiss is just a kiss, right? Wrong!  A  kiss can set the mood for an entire sexual episode that you're spending with your partner, not to mention make it or break it. Kissing. The word has a weird air to it when we mention it -  something women engage in very comfortably, something real men can't do. With a bit of effort and technique you can send a few goose bumps down his body - or yours!

Kissing is often the first step we take when we start fooling around in bed but even alone it ca be a highly enjoyable, rewarding experience in itself. The way you kiss another guy speaks volumes about yourself. It's our way of letting our partner know we're interested and interesting by giving him a taste of what's to come. A few pecks here and there won't cut it. You want to blow some heat,  and excite your partner as much as possible. 

The key to being a good kisser is to actively use your lips. Relax, or make an effort to relax your lips to make them as soft and pliable as possible. This can differentiate between a "mellow" and a "hot" kiss. Some guys just tense up their lips and the feeling you get is one of trying to kiss a statue. Be comfortable, and don't be scared to experiment as there are many ways to kiss and  one might end up being one that you might really like. Your kissing can be passionate and intense, or you lay back and affectionately savor your partner's lips. Gentle pecks on the neck, nipples, ears, stomach, or anywhere else for that matter can be much appreciated by the one who's on the receiving end. Let's not also forget the tongue which you can use to add an extra level of excitement.

Make him tingle As you start to kiss, try gently to brush your partner's cheek with them, or run them along his neck while barely making contact with his skin. Don't be afraid to use your breath either by blowing gently down his neck or in his ear. Nothing can get a man hotter than someone's warm breath on their skin, sending goose bumps down his neck, back, and arms. This type of foreplay is very sensual and can build up quite a lot of sexual tension. His reaction should give you a few pointers to his overall sexual responsiveness.

Let your tongue do the teasing As you become more adventurous, start using your tongue by running or flicking it across his lips, moistening them slightly without actually kissing him. Then when you do finally kiss him, some of the tension that built up will be relieved as you've given him the kiss which so many times have you avoided while teasing him. Use your tongue on his neck then run it around his earlobe and ear. You may also want to cover his ear with your mouth and gently exhaling while doing so (tip: Try not to inhale or to exhale too rapidly while you're doing this  because the rushing air will make him feel as if someone stuck a vacuum tube in his ear). He will get a well to do "warm fuzzy feeling" as a result that will ultra sensitize him to what's to come.

Be adventurous When you start to French-kiss, open your mouth slightly and let your partner accept the tip of your tongue into his mouth and vice versa. As you continue to kiss more intensely , try to suck lightly on your partner's tongue to give some extra sensation, but be sure not to suck too hard since you want to maintain a pleasurable feeling. Nibble or suckle gently on your partner's lips while at the same time feeling their soft texture. You might also taste his lips and savor their juicyness. Although we don't realize it, every person carries their own unique flavor so pay attention to the extra details. Try to be a creative kisser. Kiss your man the same way that you enjoy being kissed, and try to imitate kissing methods that you've enjoyed in the past.

Keep the fangs away -or use 'em! Always be aware of your teeth. As much as kissing can be fun, it's not pleasant to kiss someone and have their teeth scrape your tongue or your lips (Imagine how it feels as if you'd have bit yourself on the cheek. Ouch!).  You can also use your teeth to your advantage by nibbling on your partner's chin or on his lips to show a few signs of playful aggression. 

Become a Whiz Kiss other parts of your partner's body and try to find his sensitive areas by doing some detective work with your mouth. Does he become tense? Does he hold you tighter? Does he twitch? Does he breathe more deeply? Is he smiling? ... You'll be often pleasantly surprised to find that a peck or a tongue flick in a sensitive area might excite him. Some common sensitive areas are love handles, the insides of thighs, the belly button, the neck, nipples, armpits, the small of the back, back of knees, and so on... These areas  as well as the sensitivity varies from one guy to another so you'll have to base your judgment on his reaction to make sure that you're doing your best to stimulate him. 

Use your creativity, be playful, and aim on having fun. By making the effort to understand your partner, chances are that he'll return the favor and both of you will have a hot time. You don't have to be a hardcore kisser to enjoy doing all the items listed here but if you try a few, you will find that at the end of the day - or night you will be handsomely reminded. Go get him cowboy! 

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